Sophisticated Ignorance

graham-bailey:

fringeofdarkness:

On Hands At the Throat.

There is something about a hand placed at the throat.  Many would look at this picture and recoil in shock, feeling that this is a violent, sadistic, evil act.  Only those who have been here or craved this kind of experience can see a much different portrait.

We each have our own interests and limits here with the dance on the fringe.  I love to take my girl by the throat, but I get no pleasure from choking or breath play.  I am ever vigilant about my girl’s safety, and I am very cautious about delicate anatomy here.

For me - my hand to her throat is all about control, intensity, and erotic pleasure.  My girl loves this stark contrast to the vanilla world and hesitant, timid men in her past.  She loves the immediate command, the control, and the clear direction of her body - where she goes and what she does.

I will grasp her by the throat while I strip her, cuff her, probe her, kiss her, fondle her, or fuck her.  That last sentence made me smile, because I usually do all of the above.  And I absolutely love the way she whimpers, moans, sings to me, and wets for me as we go.

This is the exchange of power.  This is the dance on the fringe.

*remembers previous conversation*

*sips tea*

for the gentleman…

(Source: ameliastrehler)